Remember when you were dating? Everything you did seemed to be perfect, he hung on your every word, was hopelessly devoted? If it seems like the only hopeless thing you have right now is not being able to please him, take heart. Being married is like going to the same movie over and over and knowing the ending. So the way how to make your husband happy is all about switching things up, adding some twists, and putting in some sex scenes to entice the audience. If you want to bring marital bliss back – and his attention, try these 13 things that will make him adore you again.
Twenty suggestions to make your husband happy again
1. Do the Dirty Work
After you get married, you fall into the he does this, I do that trap. Sure, you have to do the laundry and maybe the sniff check sometimes, but do you notice when he takes out the trash or cuts the lawn? Doing the same things day after day can become monotonous, and there is nothing more life sucking than living in Groundhog Day. Surprise him by doing all those things that are on his “chore” list so that he can sit back and not worry about it for a bit.
2. Compliment him!
Okay, let’s be real honest about this… women can be a man’s worst critic or his biggest hero, which one have you been lately? Finding the negative is super easy when life is chugging along. If it has been a while since you told him that he is pretty hot or that you love his smile, what are you waiting for. Compliments are something that should be given freely and for no reason at all.
3. Bring him Flowers
A guy once told me that blow job are like flowers for guys. The best part is that you don’t have to order them, worry about what to put on the card, or pay for them in any way. Just because, give him flowers once a week and you just might see a reciprocation.
4. How to Make Your Husband Happy? Plan a Getaway Weekend
It really isn’t in a guy’s repertoire to plan a getaway, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want to. Let’s face it, your husband might plan a weekend with the guys, because then he doesn’t have to worry about who will take the kids, or how you will get away. He just wants to escape, so don’t take it personally. Instead of feeling like he is trying to get out of dodge to dodge you, plan something romantic, funny, or even silly together and rekindle the good times you used to have together pre-kid.
5. Ditch the Granny Panties
I totally get it. It is so much less expensive, comfortable, and convenient to pick up a six pack of undies from Target, but put yourself into your husband’s shoes for a minute. What does a hole in your underwear topped off with a stain say? It says I already have you, so why try to work for it. Try to think back to a time when your had a matching bra and thong combo.. you might not miss it, but he does. Tell him you still care about what he sees when the clothes come off.
6. Do the Landscaping
Okay, I understand, fall is upon us and shorts are soon to be a thing of the past. But think about it, who has to rub up against you at night? Sure he wants a warm rug to walk on, but not to sleep next to. If there is someone you should be landscaping for; it should be the man you love. Take special care to trim all those private parts that are meant to turn only him on.
7. It’s a Long-Term Strategy
There are things you can do in the immediate future that are good ways how to make your husband happy and then there are the long-term goals. With life hectic, COVID looming, homeschooling in full swing, who has time to work out? You do and should. The thing about being fit and losing those extra LBs is that they will not only make him happy; they will make you a more confident and sexy soul. So, look at working out and losing weight in this way, it is helping both of you. Happy wife, happy life, if you are happier, you will make him happier. If you get your groove (and size) back then you will both be ready to hit the sheets.
8. Speaking of Sheets
If it has been a while since you got that package in a nondescript brown paper package, it is time to hit the online shop again. Things tend to get a little stale in the bedroom if you don’t try to spice them up every once in a while. Buy a new toy to make him feel good, and while you are at it, get one for yourself. It’s time to put your sex into drive and drive it all the way home!
9. Keep up With the Joneses
Hey, I am not being judgie, but if your roots aren’t planted in the ground, but rather in your hairline, then it is time to clean things up and start anew. As a woman, you should totally be you and wear it proud, but that doesn’t mean your style has to stay about the year you got married. I know you love your hair stylist, and if she loves you too, she will be all over providing a makeover. If you walk into the salon and they still have those bubble hairdryers or they have a sign that says $10 a cut, you might want to step it up a bit and try a new look.
10. Mom Jeans Might be Back… But…
Sure in the eighties young girls with curvy bodies could tots pull off the high waste look. But now that you are a mom, it might be time to loss the “mom jeans look”. What are moms usually good at making? Muffins, but no one things that a muffin top is delicious, so maybe it might be time to update your wardrobe and find a sexier new way to be you?
11. Makeup Isn’t Just What you do After a Fight
Remember the days you used to get all dressed up and hit the club? Those days might not come around every other night now that you have children. But that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t put the effort in once in a while to put some mascara on and hide some of those little flaws. Yes, he totally accepts you for all that you are and how you look, but he might like to have someone who is looking a little fancy on the weekend?
12. What’s on the Menu
There was a time when you tried a little harder to make your way to his heart through his stomach than sticking in some chicken nuggets or frozen pizza. You know he has his favorite meal, so out of the blue, take the time to make it for him. Okay, I am not condoning letting your mother-in-law take precedence, but just this once, if you don’t know what turns his appetite for food on, reach out to his mom and see if she can share the family fav with you. Yes, every so once in a while we have to let them have it, as hard as it is!
13. Roll Play
We get a little stuck in our rolls and the day-to-day, Even if you aren’t an adventurous heart, try getting outside your comfort level every once in a while. Sure, y’all committed to one another till death do you part, but that doesn’t mean it has to be the death of fun in the bedroom. Be someone wild and crazy or ask him to put on a butler’s outfit and vacuum. Either way, you will get some shit done, sex-wise and house cleaning-wise.
Happy wife, happy life, happy husband, happy wife… it is all a cycle. So, inadvertently the way how to make your husband happy is to make yourself happy – win-win. If you want to turn things around or just make them a little less what they are, try these 13 ways to bring the bliss back tonight.
